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05/05/2017
If you're like most people going through a divorce, you'll be focusing on the big issues. But there are also several other issues that can be missed.
If you’re like most people going through a divorce you’ll be focusing on the big issues; where am I going to live, what about the kids, who is going to pay for stuff, what do we do with pensions and so on. Big issues that need a lot of attention. But, there are also several other issues that can be missed that may look less important on the surface but can have a big impact if not now, then in the future. So, here’s a few things to watch out for.
Pensions
Make sure you know who’s got what and what it’s worth. It’s not just the pension but other benefits that you could’ve shared had you stayed together such as life assurance and a tax free lump sum. You can read our guide to pension sharing here.
Property
If one of you is keeping the home you need to think about the mortgage; will the bank or building society allow one of you to take on the mortgage, can you afford it?
Will one of you keep a financial interest in the home and what will the conditions be? This is often done if there aren’t enough other assets for a financial settlement (it’s called a Mesher Order) but could mean that the property has to be sold when the children are 18 for example.
If the divorce is finalised and the property sold more than 18 months after one of you left, there could be a capital gains tax bill to pay. If you’re worried about this you should speak to an accountant.
Job perks
Did you enjoy your ex’s perks from their job such as subsidised child care, gym membership, housing allowance etc and what will it mean to you to lose them?
Life assurance & other protection
Most couples with a mortgage have a joint life assurance policy to pay off the loan if one of them dies. How will you deal with this now? There may also be other policies held in joint names that you need to think about.
You might want to think about setting up new life assurance or health insurance on your ex after the divorce. This is important if your ex will be paying maintenance or school fees; what would happen if he or she died or was ill and couldn’t work?
State benefits
Will any benefits you currently get be affected by the divorce?
Will you be able to claim additional benefits such as Working Tax Credits and Child Tax Credits?
Who will the Child Benefit be paid to?
Can you boost your State Pension by using your ex’s National Insurance record?
We’re sorry to throw all of this into the mix, at a time when you already have a lot on your plate. If you need some help, see if you can find a local financial adviser who will see you for an hour or two to take all of your questions. If so, go prepared with a list of questions and have a summary of your financial position ready. You can find a good financial adviser for about £150 – £200 an hour depending on where you live. That can sound like an expensive few hours but they might save you thousands in the long-run?
If you do want to look for a financial adviser we suggest you check out Vouched For. And if it all feels too awful today, then you could always treat yourself to a nice take-away with a glass of wine and pick up the fight again tomorrow!? Good luck.
For more information on divorce, visit our distressed divorcer Learning Path.
In the throes of a divorce, or just weighing up the options, this stuff is never fun. But we'll try and make it as painless as possible.
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Rory | Ham | 28/08/2020 | 7
I am looking for a new home for my SIPP. I am looking for a SIPP with low charges and which is easy to set up & run, as I am 75 now and keep forgetting I have dementia. Or do you think I should just leave it where it is?
Geoffrey | South Yorkshire | 08/08/2020 | 0
The charges for my SIPP are around 1.5% per annum. When I look at other SIPP fees they are a lot lower than this. Am I paying over the top in charges?
Andrew | Greater Manchester | 04/08/2020 | 1
Is it better to invest with lower fees & no exit charges, or pay higher charges & have no exit fees?
Andy | Hampshire | 20/04/2020 | 5
I am approaching 75 and have mostly saved into cash - should I open a Stocks and Shares ISA for two years and then cash it in?
Dale | UK | 23/03/2020 | 0
I really don’t like this market meltdown during the coronavirus outbreak. Should I sell and just get out?
| 19/03/2020 | 18
Should I still make regular ISA and pension investments in the current COVID-19 turmoil? Or is it better saving to cash?
Andrew | UK | 17/03/2020 | 5
I am confused about financial services compensation: I have a SIPP and an ISA with AJ Bell Youinvest, and am about to inherit a sizeable sum. I am already over the £85,000 financial services compensation limit. Should I be worried? Should I set up accounts with multiple platforms, to be covered by the compensation scheme?
Emma | London | 22/07/2019 | 3
I am torn between investing in my ISA, and putting money into a personal pension. I know about pension grossing up, and the 25% tax free cash. However I will inevitably pay tax on the 75% which is not tax free. Whereas with the ISA, I don't get the grossing up benefit, but won't pay any tax. What do you think?
Christopher | Staffordshire | 18/07/2019 | 2
I'm thinking of moving into a drawdown SIPP, taking my 25% and leaving the rest invested until I need a regular income in my mid 60s. I am trying to find a financial adviser willing to review my plans, but they all want an ongoing relationship. Where can I find an adviser who will do a one off review? Also I am unsure whether financial investment protection is per fund or per SIPP.
Susan | London | 16/07/2019 | 16
I am looking at consolidating my different pension pots. My main concern is - will I lose out by transferring my Civil Service pension to a new place? By the way, I am loving Boring Money! I’m really keen to start taking control of my finances and it’s proving so helpful... not making me feel like a clown for not understanding all the financial faffery! Thanks!
Hannah | Herefordshire | 08/07/2019 | 0
In 1988 I opted out of SERPS and proceeded to set up a With-Profits Personal Pension Plan with Equitable Life. Fast forward to now and I've recently received a 'proposal' from Eq Life. I don't really understand whether this is a proposal I should give my approval to as I don't understand whether I will potentially gain or lose from the changes stated.
Tori | Buckinghamshire | 04/07/2019 | 2
I am thinking of setting up a SIPP to diversify my investments and spread the risk. I'm nervous about doing my own investments, so I don't really know where to begin. Are there SIPPs which do it for you? Or if not, should I continue investing in my previous workplace pension?
Holly | Sussex | 03/07/2019 | 0
I am not a tax payer as I do not work. Will the Government pay any money into my private pension?
Mrs Khan | Essex | 02/07/2019 | 0
I have opened my first Stocks and Shares ISA, and have a company pension on the new standard 5%/3% contributions. I have enough easy access savings to cover emergencies so I was wondering what would be a next good step, add to S&S ISA or open a SIPP for retirement?
Kevin | Strathclyde | 14/06/2019 | 10
I work for my company which funds my SIPP directly. I will be receiving compensation in the coming months - is it possible to pay SIPP contributions from the compensation payment? If pension significant contributions are not possible, what might we consider when looking for a tax efficient home for the compensation?
Andy | Lancashire | 12/06/2019 | 3
I am a self-employed sole trader. Would my pension contributions count as a Business Expense, incurred in running a small business?
Anna | Warwickshire | 11/06/2019 | 7
As a U.S. passport holder as well as a British citizen living in the UK, are there certain things I can't invest in?
Megan | Scotland | 11/06/2019 | 0
I have been putting £50/month for each of my two children into a pension with Hargreaves Lansdown. In light of the costs of investing highlighted on this website, should I move to somewhere with lower charges, or stay-put? Alternatively, would I be better to put money into a Lifetime ISA for each of them instead?
Stuart | Cambridgeshire | 06/06/2019 | 4
I’m in my 30s and live in London. I have savings in cash but I’ve never tried any ISAs, stocks etc. before. I am looking for some suggestions as to the types of products I should use to begin investing. Instinct is telling me to keep 50% of my savings in a safe investment, 30% in a medium risk investment, 10% in higher risk, and keep 10% for emergencies. I’m making nothing keeping the cash in the bank!
Lisle | London | 30/05/2019 | 5
How can I find out how my Aviva SIPP pension is performing against the competition? I'm 51. The fund value is £161K and it was opened a year ago. Appreciate any tips.
Danny | London | 30/05/2019 | 1
I have minimal pensions and would like to start a new pension to save for the next 12 years. I've already set up a Stocks & Shares ISA with Nutmeg, so would like to start my pension with another provider. Which would you recommend?
Sam | Norfolk | 30/05/2019 | 0
I have two pension pots, one of which is a stakeholder - this one is currently worth £120,000 - the other is approximately £50,000. I will be 60 in 4 years time and am anxious that my pots may not be growing fast enough. I currently input £300 per month into the Stakeholder. I do not intend to access either of these accounts until I am 65. Can I combine both these pensions, or should I leave them as is? I would appreciate an opinion on this. Many thanks, Maggie
Maggie | Gloucestershire | 29/05/2019 | 0
Hello, I already have a workplace pension. Can I also have a private pension? If so, I have a LISA as well. Can I have all three in place?
Precious | Surrey | 23/05/2019 | 0
I am a self-employed 55 year old, with only a state pension. What can I do to increase my money for retirement?
Sandra | Dumfries and Galloway | 21/05/2019 | 1
We have just retired to France. Our pensions cover our expenses but we also have £230k which we would like to invest for a monthly income. Could you please explain the low-risk options we might want to consider?
Keith | France | 10/05/2019 | 2
I'm in my very early 20s, and earning well. I have no debts or dependants. I have a Stocks and Shares ISA, and am weighing up the pros and cons of a General Investment Account vs a Private Pension. What should I keep in mind?
Cecily | Berkshire | 08/04/2019 | 4
I intend to retire in autumn, aged 60 and would like to leave my son and grandson as comfortable as possible when I'm gone. I have talked with several IFAs, but given my risk adverse nature, their fees seem to eat up most of the benefit they offer. Do IFAs normally bring sufficient benefit to low risk strategies, to make it worthwhile? Or am I better off cautiously investing myself, and saving the fees?
Stephen | North Yorkshire | 01/04/2019 | 0
I have two separate company pensions from previous employers. For the last 12 years I have not contributed to a pension. I am now 44 and know I need to put money into one. I'm not financially aware and the robo providers sound tempting but, obviously, I want the possibility for the best return at medium risk. Your Q2 2018 results update showed Nutmeg’s Portfolio 10 as returning different figures than the Best Buys page for Nutmeg says. Why are these figures so different? Is Vanguard Lifestrategy 60 a good choice, though they don't have a SIPP.
Dave | West Yorkshire | 26/03/2019 | 0
I am self employed (40) with no private pension, earning £50,000 a year. I have savings and can make a lump sum investment. I know nothing about Stocks or Shares. What is the best way forward for pension and tax reduction? Desperate Anna
Anna | London | 25/03/2019 | 0
My pension SIPP has an annual charge of about 2%. Now that I am in monthly drawdown, I'm interested in exploring alternative providers to lessen the charges, since future returns look like being lower than they have been in the past.
Michael | London | 25/03/2019 | 0
When I retired in 2018, I considered consolidating my pensions for income drawdown. Recently I spoke to an advisers aligned to the investment philosophy of Albion Strategic Consulting, but was scared off again. I understand the basics, but am now totally unsettled as to the direction I should take and if, at such a critical stage, I should invest in an IFA on a regular basis.
Rob | Hertfordshire | 20/03/2019 | 3
My 60 year old mum is not very financially literate and has has no private pension. She has approximately £900k to invest, from which she will need to draw down c.£40k a year for life. She is not very financially literate and would not be able to proactively manage the money herself. Would you favour an Independent Financial Adviser or a Robo Adviser for someone in her position? Thank you!
Harry | Kent | 11/03/2019 | 1
If my son increases his pension contribution, I have read it may affect the amount he can borrow on a mortgage. Is this correct? Should he take a SIPP out as well? Is there any advantage in maxing out his managed Nutmeg Lifetime ISA in the next financial year?
Richard | Hertfordshire | 06/03/2019 | 3
I am 65 and still working. I have a workplace pension, which was closed and replaced with a retirement saver pension. I contribute to this via salary sacrifice. I also have a personal pension serviced by an IFA. Should I move my personal pension fund to a SIPP provider at this late stage of my life? I would like to consolidate the workplace retirement saver and personal pension fund together and manage it myself.
Den | South Yorkshire | 27/02/2019 | 0
Trying to get a bit more pro-active with my pension. If my money had been in an online managed fund like Nutmeg for example, is it reasonable to assume that as the markets fell last year the funds would have been managed in real(ish) time to limit the damage? If so, is it therefore a no-brainer to transfer my pension to an online managed pension or is it not quite as simple as that?
David | London | 08/02/2019 | 4
With a SIPP in drawdown would a company like Netwealth whose investment management fees are of the order of .66% of the value of the portfolio, be a better option compared to companies like Hargreaves Lansdown or Investec? What are the relative benefits of Netwealth over the more traditional wealth managers?
Steve | Lancashire | 22/01/2019 | 7
From my retirement I received a lump sum of money and a monthly pension. I have £100,000 that I do not need for the foreseeable future... One of my main concerns with Financial Advisers are their costs... All I want is simply to see this money grow to its potential, sensibly and above inflation... Therefore my next thoughts are Stocks and Shares ISAs... My only concerns here are the current Brexit problems - I saw the FTSE drop this past week. I cannot find any information out there to assist with my decision making if this is certainly a good time to invest... I am aware that I can place £20,000 for this year. Come April 2019 I place another £20,000 and so on until the £100,000 has been utilised. Do I have to place it into the same fund or can I choose another different fund with a different company?... Please can you help to ease some of this burden, which has proved an awful part of my retirement and made me frightened to spend any money.
Katherine | Derbyshire | 02/01/2019 | 0
I was lucky enough to inherit a significant sum from my father... currently in Alliance trust platform in 10 investment trusts. They have delivered well in the last 20 years. But they are UK equity based. And highly risky. Do you offer a sanity check service for confused individuals like myself? I don’t know what to do...
Paul | Berkshire | 12/11/2018 | 2
I am a 30 year old British expat living and working in the Netherlands. I worked in the UK for 5 years but to my knowledge I did not have a work pension of any sort. I've been working in the Netherlands for the last 4 years, and again have no pension (my company does not provide anything). I'm getting increasingly worried about my future retirement and my lack of any kind of pension. Firstly, I am not sure what - if any - state pension I could receive (either from UK or Netherlands) but I assume not much. Secondly, I'm ready to start investing on a monthly basis into a private pension fund, but I have no idea what the best option for me would be. Really lost and confused, and would really appreciate any advice you might have.
Lucinda | Kent | 09/10/2018 | 0
My wife, 56, is still working but has a final salary scheme which she is drawing as well - currently £26k per annum. Her current employer's pension scheme is defined contribution, and her fund stands at £1.050m. Therefore, her total pension is around £1.57m. We protected her Lifetime Allowance at £1.25m, but all growth will now be taxed at the excess rate. My idea is to take the 25% tax free amount out of the defined contribution pot, and reinvest it in the same funds as the pension. This will then remove growth on the 25% from the excess tax rate to a capital gain when sold, thereby saving a considerable amount of tax. Am I right?
Rod | Hampshire | 05/09/2018 | 1
Can you advise me on the best approach when looking to invest in a product that offers compound interest? I’m thinking about funds rather than bank accounts. I also have 4 different pensions on the go. Should I keep them separate to diversify the risk? Or consolidate them? How will these pensions be treated when I retire? Will they be considered in aggregate by the tax man?
Craig | Clackmannanshire | 16/08/2018 | 1
I have about two thirds of my ISA in funds with Charles Stanley Direct and about one third left with St James's Place. I was planning to transfer the remaining one third to Charles Stanley Direct. However the recent platform price increases seem to put me in the worst position possible. After Charles Stanley Direct's fee increase, could I do better elsewhere?
Gerry | Bedfordshire | 15/08/2018 | 7
I'm nearly 30 and looking to open a private ready made pension, and also an investment ISA for retirement funds or towards a property, but very unsure what risk level to choose (low to medium, or medium to high)? Any comments or advice welcome.
Susan | West Midlands | 24/07/2018 | 2
My wife needs to set up a SIPP with a good value, low cost, low maintenance underlying investment portfolio. We want a good mobile app from a well respected provider. Where can we see the options and directly compare historic returns so we can make a decision?
Guy | Hertfordshire | 17/07/2018 | 1
I hope you can help. I recently consolidated two modest pensions into a SIPP in readiness to start UPFLS drawdown in May (2018). Whilst I was hoping for growth in my investments I wasn’t expecting it to rocket and now find I could well be looking at exceeding the lifetime allowance, possibly even before my first annual drawdown in May, and I’m unsure what, if anything, I should do.
John | London | 03/07/2018 | 9
Hello Are there any specific pensions you would recommend, with low charges, which I can set up for my 11 yr old son? I am already paying the maximum into a Junior ISA. Anita
Anita | West Sussex | 18/06/2018 | 3
I am a 59 yr old retired lady with no income but I have reasonable equity..is it worth starting a pension or is it too late?
LL | Norfolk | 06/02/2018 | 2
I am very lucky to have just received a gift which I want to invest for our retirement. My husband and I aim to retire in around five years. We have 11 more years of school fees to fund, then hopefully university fees for two after that. I've put together a plan for us - can you have a look and see if it makes sense?
Fiona | UK | 18/01/2018 | 6
Can losses in a pension SIPP be offset against anything?
Henryk | Hampshire | 17/01/2018 | 1
I am already receiving a pension from a final salary scheme and I am retired. I have a sum of money I want to invest. Can I start another pension as a saver and, if so, how much can I put in every year?
Collette | Greater London | 25/11/2017 | 0
I am a 59 yr old retired lady with no income but I have reasonable equity..is it worth starting a pension or is it too late?
LL | Norfolk | 10/11/2017 | 2
I am getting long in the tooth at 79, a little forgetful and I am going through a painful divorce. This has shattered my confidence and I need help.
Richard | Kent | 05/11/2017 | 3
Please help me. Choosing a pension from Aviva. It asks if I want growth or income? Which one do I choose ? I'm 46 .
Ria | Greater London | 11/09/2017 | 9
Which is better - property or pension?
Paul | Greater London | 07/09/2017 | 0
Is it worth using a financial adviser when it comes to switching pensions funds, or should I do the research and pick the funds myself? I am no expert in stocks and shares.
Helen | Dorset | 10/08/2018 | 4
I've got £20,000 from an endowment policy (astonishing, I know), and I'm looking into how best to invest to get a reasonable return without excessive risk. Any thoughts much appreciated!!
Penny | Peterborough | 09/08/2018 | 1
Why should I bother with paying into a pension at my age of 55 years now when I have never had one?
Tee | Greater London | 07/09/2017 | 7
How much should I insure my life for?
Femi | Greater London | 07/09/2017 | 1
How can I find out how much my State Pension is likely to be?
Abigail | Greater London | 06/09/2017 | 0
How much does life insurance cost?
Christina | Greater London | 06/09/2017 | 0
What are the changes with pension annuities? My mother in law has asked as her retirement is looming. I've read in the press it's changing but it all feels confusing. I just need some simple clear advice. Thanks
Keith | Greater London | 06/09/2017 | 2
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